我该不该离婚呢?
我和妻子在八年前牵手步入了婚姻,开始了我们的新生活,而且不久之后就有了我们的爱情结晶,妻子为了可以更好的照顾家庭和孩子,毅然决然的提出了辞职,干起了“家庭主妇”的职业,而我对妻子绝对是心存感激,并没有网络上所说的认为自己赚钱养家,自己多么辛苦,反而十分体谅妻子的辛苦。妻子平时在家除了做饭炒菜打扫卫生,照看孩子之外,还喜欢上上网,玩玩手机,不过一般都是看一些育儿,或者菜谱之类的网站,每次看到妻子如此用心的对待这个家,我都会对自己说,要更疼爱妻子一点,所有的工资都放心的交到老婆手上。
就这样平淡而又幸福的过了8年,却在前几天我意外的发现,我最爱的妻子居然出轨了,我们的婚姻面临着空前的挑战。。。。。。
那天,提前结束工作,回到家中却发现妻子并不在家中,想着妻子可能有什么事情出门了,到了6点多妻子还没有回来,我就打了个电话,妻子说在处理孩子读书的事情,今天会比较晚回来,让我自己叫个外卖好了,我当时听了不仅没有生气,反而心疼老婆为这个家付出太多了,于是决定做一次“煮夫”,为妻儿准备好丰盛的晚餐,等他们回来就能一家人享用了。
一边做饭时我还一边幻想,妻儿回来之后看到满桌的丰盛菜肴,会不会特别开心呢,想到这我就忍不住兴奋,但当时钟已经指向九点时妻子还没有回来,看着天色已黑,我不禁有些担心,是不是发生什么事情呢?
立刻给妻子去了一个电话,但没想到手机响了几下就被挂断了,难道是妻子快回来了,所以挂断电话吗?又过去了半小时,妻子带着孩子回来了,但却对我说他们已经吃过了,让我自己吃,当时心里那种失落不知道大家能不能理解。
吃完晚饭,和孩子坐在电视机旁闲聊,我说:今天你们去哪里吃饭啦,怎么这么晚回来呢?本来我并没有其他意思,只是想要关心一下他们在哪吃的晚餐,但没想到孩子告诉我:你晚上加班不回来吃饭,我刘叔叔就会带我们出去吃饭,每次去的地方都好漂亮,好好吃。
当时我心头一惊,难道是有什么误会吗?趁着妻子洗澡的时候,我第一次打开妻子的手机,发现她不论是手机通话记录,还是微信里面都有她和另一个男人的聊天记录,当下我立刻拿着手机问妻子到底是怎么一回事,究竟是误会还是确有其事,究竟结婚这么多年,我有什么对不起你的地方,让你选择和其他男人苟且。
面对几乎要崩溃的我,妻子惊呆了,可能她认为这件事不会被我发现,妻子没有隐瞒,承认了自己因为常年一个人在家照顾家庭,让她觉得无聊,而且慢慢失去自我,感受不到自我的价值,尤其是当孩子上学之后,她常常不知道生活的意义是什么,因此就通过某个软件认识了孩子说的这个刘叔叔,但同时也向我保证,只是因为孤单寂寞而一起吃个饭,并没有做出越轨之事,也保证今后一定和他断了联系。
虽然至今我还是无法原谅妻子的所作所为,这些天我近乎行尸走肉,整个人都没有精神,而且每天都害怕回家,想要选择离婚,但是我舍不得这个家,舍不得孩子,但却也过不了自己这一关,害怕自己将来不再信任妻子,到底,我该不该离婚呢?
男人都害怕绿帽子
事实上,从心理角度看,这是男人内心潜藏的“不安定感”,我们权且通俗地叫“绿帽恐惧症”吧,这种“不安定”是生怕妻子背着自己发生什么事情。有研究表明,女人对丈夫的信任度远远高于男人对老婆的信任度。这跟现实生活是一致的――男人可以理直气壮在外面通宵达旦喝酒、打麻将,对女人哄几句就打发掉了,而男人对女人,往往就不是这种情形了。
不會就愛你了,走啦!
正是一失足.........哈哈!
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老婆:你為又騙我!?你說過今晚因公事不回家!!
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Love 如煙!何必太認真!
当一个男人心死了 .....等待他回心!?太天真!
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