A night of sexual women how to protect themselves
Although the night of, or one-night stand is contrary to morality, but now playing one-night stand but a lot of people. Not only men like this sex game, a lot of women are addicted. For comparison inherently vulnerable woman, before the one-night stand, we must first learn to protect themselves. So how to play one-night stand woman captive? Here it to analyze.- Make the use of condoms
Ask for the proper use of condoms, even though 70% of the Chinese people could accept sex without using a condom, but the condom prevention, contraception dual effect of making it undoubtedly the most respected professionals contraceptives. In addition, about 8% of the population who are allergic to latex, if you happen to fall into this category, to choose to use ordinary pharmacy you can buy condoms polyurethane material, it will be the last choice. As for the proper use of condoms, of course, goes without saying. Yes, in order to prevent uncooperative man, woman or myself ready condoms more insurance.
Protect your privacy
Protect their sexual privacy is a virtue, if you do not have to bring cash to a dead end, or indeed difficulties of last resort, take good care of your privacy and treasure it. Before playing one-night stand, but do not reveal their personal information. After tomorrow, we are no longer met, without leaving your name, phone is better, generally used English name, anyway say what he is like Honey, Rosy, Lily and the like.
Location to be safe enough.
What kind of place is it safe to do one-night stands? I suggest you choose a hotel or guesthouse as dating sites, because in order for your safety's sake, try not to let each other know where you live, and secondly, he can not go home, who knows there will not be anything strange or dangerous equipment. Moreover, you have a relationship, since it is I wish you love, let the boys money to pay a hotel bar!
Do not put "feelings"
Why do you want to emphasize emotional investment? Because a woman born to love and health, many women have a sexual relationship with after the man, prone to feelings. One-night stand while playing a man, basically just for fun, they will not have the sentiment. If you rarely attempted one-night stand, mental construction is very important that you have the determination, have the ability to come out to play is to have the ability to let go, must not have feelings involved.
Do not take the initiative to contact the other party afterwards
Please do not do that the next day to call people stupid, it is not out of play attitude, try not to leave the phone is mutual reasons, so was the other as the gun goes to the Friends, this is not self-esteem. But if the other show is like, you want to keep him as a personal friend shot, then just take the other side of the phone, do not leave your phone to him. In short, to get the mastership of sexual relations.
Do not leave too much to the other side face
Also try not to close their eyes during sex, do not be shy oriental woman stuff, keep your eyes open because you have to pay attention to each other's little brother, and see if you satisfied with the size and hardness, as well as the above there is no strange vegetables Humanoid, it relates to your sexual satisfaction and personal safety, do not be sorry, if that has any wrong, to leave immediately, anyway, after never meet, do not give each other face! Think about if you did not pay attention because accidentally infected with a strange disease, it is not worth the candle.
If you're really looking for someone to play one-night stand, it must be carried out under its own in ensuring the premise. Also good physical and mental preparation. As gender-known brand LELO advocated, perfect harmony between men and women's sexual health benefit, so whether it is a one night stand or sex between husband and wife, as long as a harmonious sexual life, so that both sides are satisfied, that is good for body and mind!
本帖最後由 bigchance 於 2017-7-9 18:06 編輯
Have you ever had a one night stand? Yep? Well good on you, because apparently casual sex is good for your mental health. No wonder Samantha from Sex and The City was always so damn happy!
A new study released in The Journal of Sex Research suggests that the short term effects of sex, including satisfaction and joy, are just as apparent for women whether they’re sleeping with Mr Nobody or Mr Right. So even if you haven’t met “the one”, you can still get all the benefits of a healthy sex life, with 67 percent of women feeling “cheered up” on the days they have sex.
See Cosmo’s sex position of the day.
We all know that one night stands have a bad rep, with lots of pop culture portrayals showing women feeling sad or guilty the morning after. And the scientists who conducted the study actually set out to prove this notion: that girls have negative feeling about sex outside relationships. Showing that scientists don’t always know best (and they do these studies for a reason), their research totally proved their original hypothesis wrong! They found that, just like guys, women can really enjoy casual sex and feel great about it. It takes two to tango, as they say.
Sexologist and relationship expert Dr. Nikki Goldstein says the reason women feel more positive is because, “We are living in an era when women are taking back control sexually, they’re breaking gender stereotypes, such as all women want to be romanced and fall in love before sex. We’ve realised that we can go out there, have sex and it feels good.”
According to the study 93 percent of women feel physically satisfied post-booty, and 73 percent feel a thrill. And these numbers were across the board, not just for women doing it with their BF.
But does casual sex have the same positive affect for all women? According to Goldstein, “It can work for some people, but generally speaking it will always get complicated, someone will develop feelings and forget that the usual rules don’t apply – you don’t have to call someone you’re casual sleeping with. So it’s not the best long-term solution, but can be really good for women in-between partners or who are busy and want to experiment.”
She advises that women need to know the context of their sexual flings and understand their bodies, to ensure that it remains a positive experience for them: “Women need to know the risks and know their bodies. The same sex hormones are produced whether you’re sleeping with your boyfriend or someone casual, so you still might experience feelings of attachment.
“The biological side of sex is harder for women because of the way our bodies function and the way we’re taught to view sex. So we need to understand casual sex for what it is: a bit of fun.”
Surprisingly, even though they feel great physically, only 45 percent of women said they felt more attractive after sex. “Some women out there are having casual sex as a validation and that’s where it gets dangerous. Casual sex has its place if you want to feel fun and feel good, but women always need to learn to love themselves without things like this that will give instant gratification. If they can’t do this then they risk feeling shallow and unattractive afterwards, when the physically high has passed,” says Goldstein.
She also reminds all women that you’re not in a relationship with a guy you occasionally sleep with so, “as soon as it starts to get negative or doesn’t feel fun anymore, you need to end it.”
Also, we should all take the advice of our parent and “always use protection”, because apart from the obvious health benefits, the study showed that women who don’t are more likely to experience guilt and stress about their sexual health.
Tell us, how do you feel about casual sex?
令人驚訝的是，即使身體感覺很好，只有45％的女性表示在性後感覺更有吸引力。 “有一些女性在這裡做休閒的性行為作為驗證，那就是危險的地方。休閒的性感如果你想要玩得開心，感覺很好，但是女人總是需要學會愛自己，而不用這樣的事情就能立即滿足。如果他們不能做到這一點，那麼他們之後的風險就會變淺，沒有吸引力，當身體高度過去時，“戈德斯坦說。
她還提醒所有的婦女，你不是和一個你偶爾睡覺的人的關係，“一旦它開始消極，或者不再有樂趣，你需要結束它。
此外，我們都應該接受我們父母的意見，“永遠使用保護”，因為除了明顯的健康益處外，研究表明，女性不會對自己的性健康感到內疚和壓力。
告訴我們，你對休閒性感覺怎麼樣？
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