好好地正確地為自己 活著

doko

You should live right for yourself, but ...
To live for myself, does not mean no matter from other people, but I do not control others.
To live for myself does not mean not to care about others, but I can not do something for others.
Living for yourself is no longer trying to change or blame others because I can only change myself.
Live for yourself, is not to provide all the answers, so that others learn from the results.



你當好好地正確地為自己 活著 ，但是......
為自己 活著 ，不等於從此不管別人，而是明白我不控控他人。
為自己 活著 ，不等於不關心別人，只是我不能代替別人做事。
為自己活著 ，就是不再試圖改變或責備他人，因我只能改變自己 。
為自己 活著 ，就是不要提供所有答案，讓別人從結果中學習。

doko

To live for ourselves is to acknowledge powerlessness, for the result is not mine.
To live for yourself is to care for, not to worry about.
For their own living, is not to criticize, let the other to maintain dignity.
To live for themselves, is not too much protection, so that others face reality.
To live for themselves, is not to manipulate the results, so that others decide on their own.
For their own living, is no longer forced to others, and strive to become their ideal person.
Living for yourself is not to regret the past, but to continue to grow, to live for the future.


為自己 活著 ，就是承認無能為力，因為結果如何不在於我。
為自己 活著 ，就是關心而非操心 。
為自己 活著 ，就是不要批評，讓對方保有尊嚴。
為自己 活著 ，就是不要過分保護，讓別人面對現實。
為自己 活著 ，就是不要操縱結果，讓別人自行決定。
為自己 活著 ，就是不再勉強別人，而努力成為自己 理想中的人。
為自己 活著 ，就是不為過去感到遺憾，而是繼續成長 ，為未來而活。

allall

　別抱怨一切都是假的，別抱怨一切都是虛偽，別說自己枉活了這許多個春秋，別說自己永遠得不到別人的愛戴。生活的路上，你已跌倒了許多次，但每次你都能堅強得爬起；深一腳，淺一腳的跋涉中你已經

　　經曆了無數次風雨，但泥濘的路上，依舊有你微笑的麵龐。

　　相信吧，有人理解你，有人尊敬你，更有人愛你。一味地自卑和抱怨隻會把本來美麗的生活染成灰色，你更會從此走入人生的低穀。凡事隻在一念之間，甩甩發熱的頭腦，別在意太多，相信世界依然美麗。

　　為自己活著吧，不必管別人怎麽想。

　　為自己活著，也是為別人活著。