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The so-called spiritual love is like a shy piece of paper. In the end, even the parties themselves are too lazy to mention it. Life will not be as new as you think it will be. Aren't we still eating the same food and doing the same things? On the contrary, there will be some similar beautiful days when we have not given our bodies to each other. Because we haven't got it yet, we will still have expectations... Love starts with a stunning start and ends the same.
The illusion of love makes you ignore one thing, the most realistic one, that is, to be with him for a lifetime, the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt in those ordinary years; the swords and shadows that life has to endure when the wind, frost, snow and rain come. You didn't think about these.
After meeting all kinds of people, you realized that in the world, except for your parents, no one will be sincere to you, no one will trust you completely and unconditionally, and no one will always be good to you. You should have understood that the sky will get dark and change, and life is so long and far, you can only rely on yourself, there is no other choice.
Many people think that lowering the bottom line can get something back, but it is not true. The bottom line determines what you have. Once you lower the bottom line of principle, you will soon lose something you regard as a principle, and then you will lose more. Usually, what you get in return by lowering the bottom line is no longer what you wanted in the first place. The bottom line can fluctuate, but don't lower it again and again; everyone has different principles, but you must have them.
所謂精神之戀，就像一張羞澀的紙，總是到最後，連當事人自己都懶得提起。生活也不會像你以為的那樣，出現一種多麼嶄新的轉機，大家還不是吃著一樣的飯，做著一樣的事？反倒是在彼此並沒交付出身體的階段，會有一些類似美好的日子。因為那時還沒得到，所以還會有所期待……愛都是開場驚艷，結局雷同。
愛的錯覺，讓你忽略了一樣，最現實的一樣，那便是與他真實相守一輩子，那些平平淡淡歲月裡，柴米油鹽的瑣碎；那些風霜雪雨來臨時，生命要承受的刀光劍影。對這些，你都沒有想。
遇見了形形色色的人之後，你才知道，原來世界上除了父母不會有人掏心掏肺對你，不會有人無條件完全信任你，也不會有人一直對你好，你早該明白，天會黑人會變，人生那麼長路那麼遠，你只能靠自己，別無選擇。
很多人覺得降低底線可以換回一些，其實不是，底線才能決定你擁有什麼。一旦你降低原則性的底線，很快你就會失去一些你視為原則的東西，接著就會失去更多。通常降低底線換回的，已經不再是當初你想要的東西了。底線可以浮動，但不要一降再降；原則每個人都不同，但你得有。
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