My Sex Addict Friend

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My Sex Addict Friend



I'm 19 years old and I've just started my sophomore year of college. My buddy is the same age and goes to a nearby school. We've known each other since High School.


Recently I've become sort of worried about him. Basically he's a complete horndog and it's gotten out of control. When we were in high school, even then he somehow watched a ton of porn AND was successful with girls. I don't know exactly when he got laid the first time, but he helped me get set up with the girl who was my first.


Things got bad for him Senior year though. It's unbelievable, but he had started hooking up with a younger English teacher at our school and ultimately got her pregnant. Word about this got out, obviously, and he was suspended. He told me they might kick him out and he was going to be careful about who he had sex with from then on. He seemed to feel pretty bad about it.


Somehow he wasn't kicked out, and within a couple months he was dating this girl, this total airhead. Then he started getting with another older girl who was friends with his sister. He would tell me about what it was like to eat her out, fuck her without a condom, give her an orgasm--all this stuff that made me kind of envy him at the time, but at the same time seemed kind of demented to just talk about all the time.


I think he parted ways with her at some point over the summer and once again started telling me about how older chicks were bad news and he was just going to watch porn and jack off all summer. I didn't believe him.


Now that we're in college, I don't know if I'm cool with him anymore because he's just a walking disaster. In freshman year I know that he did things like take a picture of a girl while he was eating her out (I saw the picture), break the couch in his dorm after fucking some girl on it, and cheat on his kind-of girlfriend with some sorority girl who he banged on a pool table in front of his girlfriend.


Once I came to visit him and he banged this chick who he'd introduced as his friend while I was sleeping, in his room. I'd just gotten out of a relationship and so I was getting aroused by her moans while I lay there, but then I felt stupid, so I got up and just fucking yelled at my friend and told him I wasn't going to deal with this shit and left. I was mad that he hadn't at least brought along a girl for me. That was the last time we really hung out.


He never said he was sorry, he just called me out of the blue a couple months later and asked if I wanted to hang out. I said no and he told me that just because I wasn't getting any didn't mean I'd have to be a dick to him. This isn't true anyway: I have a girlfriend now who I really like.


My friend, from what I hear is still going downhill. I'm wondering if he'll like get aids before his 21st birthday or something fucked up. He never really had a dad and his Mom was an alcoholic so he has nowhere to go in life, basically, and I guess I get why all that made him so warped. But its still bad.


I'm thinking of texting him soon and seeing if we can get together and see if he's maybe doing any better. What if he isn't? What should I say?